January 9, 2009 on 2:15 pm | By | In bluefreesky.com |
Is it weird if a 17 year old girl wants to get pregnant?
Im 17, i live in the states so i guess it's typical for girls always getting pregnant and stuff but i have been thinking about it alot, and i want to have a baby, i mean is that so wrong to bring a new life in the world?No...not at all.
If you are in a steady relationship, talk to your partner about having a child.
I am only 16 years old, and I have been pregnet by the same guy five times.
All of them I had miscariages. Sadly everything does happen for a reason. He cheated on me back in April when I was 6 months along with a boy.
Make sure you both are willing and committed to have a child and good luck!it is wrong when you can't provide for a baby.lots of girls when they reach adulthood want to have a baby
but have you ever seen the Baby Borrowers?
it completely turned me off of having a baby until i was out of college and ready i'm 14 but even i can tell it's a lot of hard work. you can't just be a single mother at home is a lot of hard work. you have to work + take care of the baby
if you have a boyfriend then odds are he'll end up working but what will happen if you two start fighting a lot, and he leaves?
it's ok that you want a baby, but wait until you're older, cause having one this young is just causing a lot of trouble in your life, you're still young so go out and have fun it's not weird, a lot of women know they want to be mother's at a young age but it's definitely selfish. you're not legally able to take care of yourself yet so it's quite naive and selfish to bring a life into the world that you can't support. you have no full time job, no money and odds are you don't live on your own and support yourself. how could you support a child?Hi Samon, it's not weird at all. In fact, it makes sense that you feel that pull. It is a wonderful thing to bring a new life into this world... but keep reading. That is not the only question to ask yourself at this time. The other question is "Is it wise for a 17 year old girl to get pregnant?" Talk to other girls who are 15, 16, and 17 who have babies and ask them if they wish they would have waited. I think nearly 100% will say they wish they had and they would encourage you to do the same. The getting pregnant part, as miraculous as it is, is the easiest part. Raising that little soul takes lots of resources. And a good, present daddy is a very important element. Every baby deserves two present parents. Finding a good and responsible man who will make a commitment to YOU is a good sign he'll make a commitment to a baby. We're talking a lifetime commitment, right?
At the right time with the right partner, having a baby is one of the most wonderful things you'll ever do. <3im 17, about two months ago i thought i was pregnant, because my period was super late[beause of stress]. i accepted it and when my perion came i was pretty bumbed out, i would of kept my baby. At this point in my life i would not intentionally get pregnant because i want to have my life together before i have my kids. Its not a bad thingto bring a life into this world, you just have to be ready for it. if you think your ready good for you. Well I don't know about that. I know girls at my school who when they were pregnant they were all happy and excited about having a baby. But after I know one girl who said that "Even though I love my baby, it's really hard. I have to wake up at ,like, three in the morning because he's always crying. And I don't want to take my baby to the (football) game, but my mom might make me! When I heard her say that I knew that it wasn't as easy as ADULTS make it seem. So You can do what you want to do but if you do have a baby at 17, that's almost the end of your social life.It's not weird to want to get pregnant. However, have you REALLY thought about it?
I'm 22, and I would like to have one, but I'm not going to have one in the next couple years. Here's why:
I do not have enough money. I just graduated from college, and I can barely support myself.
I don't have the time. If I'm going to work, I can't have a child. I would want to spend every moment with a baby for the first year. How can I do that if I'm working?
Children costs lots of money, lots of time, and lots of stress. Every day you'll worry about what kind of trouble he can get into, who could hurt him, what kind of health problems he could have, if he's developing properly, etc.
You have to be prepared for that kind of commitment. It is not wrong, but at 17 you have to think about this logically. Your still probably in HS. If your single why would you want to do that to your child? Supporting him yourself will be hard with no job, no degree, no home of your own. If you have a spouse or a bf, what are the guarantees he is going to be there for you? Think about this before you potentially ruin a child's life.Are you out of your mind. I got pregnant with my first baby at 19 and that was way to young. Life was not as great as it is now, I didn't have a clue. Let's face it your not even out of school. What about college? How are you going to support your self and a baby? Please just wait in till your much older. Please!!! #If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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